For instance this past Sunday at church the pastor and people were discussing how we are not to judge one another. People brought up stories about how either they or people they knew stopped going to church because other people judged them unjustly, and that we should accept people as they are and let God judge and convict them. When we judge them we drive them away. I kept telling my wife that this line of thinking was really grating on me. Finally, i found the passage in I Corinthians 5 that instructs the people of the church to judge a man that was knowingly living in sin and remove him from the church. The princple is that the responsibility of the church is to be judge over themselves and that when we allow sin to pervade the church it will tend to spread through the church. There was quite a bit more to the conversation than that, but you get the gist.
It's funny because about 4-5 months ago i was in a group discussion among other pastors in which i defended the other side of the argument talking about how when someone comes into the church we can't automatically judge them, but we need to let the Holy Spirit convict them. The point was that when we judge a new Christian and place a whole bunch of rules on them, we are doing the Holy Spirit's job for Him and we tend to drive people away rather than help them to grow.
So the question is, why the change in views? What changed that caused me to go to the opposite extreme? The answer is... nothing. My view did not change. In both discussions there was an imbalance. Both arguments, are valid and understanding both sides of the argument is imperative to making the right choices and reacting properly to sin that is in the church. If one extreme is taken without regard for the other, the church tends to be unhealty and self-destructive. Balance is a very difficult thing to learn.
Ecclesiastes 7:18 It is good that you grasp one thing and also not let go of the other; for the one who fears God comes forth with both of them.
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